Posted by crimsonmoonblade
Filed in Personal
-cups my chin-
My friends been wondering if there's something wrong with me and i gave them a very simple reason that, i am not in the mood. I do not want to bring up a whole entire theory, when it is important but i understand that different people live their life differently.
I think its normal for an individual to goes about in their life spending time privately by themselves and publicaly with friends. There are times when you want to spend some time alone and there will be times when you would want to spend time with your friends - and thats where you hit them up. By having friends and talking to someone, it dose not necessarily means that you have to spend time every now and them with them. That's not how it works for me.
I may be a social person, i like making new friends, meeting new people and things like that but i also like spending time alone on my own, going for movie, shopping, reading, dinner etc.
If my friends invites me to hang out with them and if i could make it - i will be there but if i could not then i am sorry. You don't need a PHD for this. Its call understanding and delegating of relationship.
There are a lot of things to consider and i realized that it would be tactfull to consider people spaces when it comes to communication.There are some thing which you can/do ask or talk about and there are some thing which you cant/don't.
Even when it comes to intellectual conversation or in depth conversation about discussing things, that too have to be considered cause not everybody wants to converse on heavy matters, some would just love to keep it light @ heart and there are some who do wants to discuss on intellectual mattter but it dosen't mean its gonna happen all the time....
I am both private and social type of individual. I could not be spending my time in complete isolation nor can i spend my time out there with my friends or meeting new strangers.....
It's strikes me odd when they were to ask me if i am alright... when i have already told them i am taking a month break to spend the time with myself before i will start to emerge once again before i will start to seek out, what's there in this world .